Hand over heart – Would your massage experience be different, if your massage looked superstar, supermodel handsome (OK, even just plain handsome)? Let me try again, how important is it for your masseur to be goodlooking?
The plain answer is HELL no!!!… and … are you out of your mind!!!?
You might think that the gay community has become inert to the hatred, the rejection, the sheer aversion that they face in daily life, and see this as ‘normal’. It’s a difficult challenge that is a daily struggle and results in problems from personality disorders to suicides. (Isnt it lovely therefore to be in places like Israel, Scandinavia, Netherlands or thailand where gays have been integrated so well into the social fabric?)
This results in extra ordinary and peculiar phenomenon where you are both thick-skinned as well as overly sensitive. So while you can live through the day with the avoidance of interactions, verbal abuse but it’s the un-said and the inexplicit that hits you where it hurts most. (or maybe I am being plain over-sensitive!!?) And after all these years, the feelings returned.
(Merry Xmas everyone. Sorry for being off the radar for this long. Here’s wishing you a very happy ending to the year, and a great beginning for the new)
It always amazes me each time I have one, about how much communication is possible within the confines of the massage room, and when you connect a lot of magic is possible. I had meant to put the next episode of how to communicate with your masseur (read part 1 here) but kept putting this off – however, this recent episode just brings it alive quite well. I know I have been offline for quite sometime, but Xmas just meant we had to reconnect. Read on…
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